Updated: Feb 15, 2020
Want to know how to make a girl think about you? To the point where she becomes obsessed with you? And can’t help but feel drawn to you emotionally?
There’s a big difference between the legit and the sneaky way to get your girl to want you badly. Ask yourself if you want her for a quick one-night stand or if you really love her and want her forever.
If you choose the latter, here are a few specific steps that will help draw her in for keeps.
1.Don’t kiss her ass - every other dude kisses her ass, so you will be special
2.Drop hints you want her - She can’t accurately read your mind, so it’s important after you’ve established the basics, you let her know your intentions.
Why do you need to do this sooner rather than later?
For the disturbing reason, you might just get kicked to the friend zone. That’s a very difficult place to escape from; that’s for sure.It’s important you move fast here. Let her know with your body language and subtle flirting that you aren’t interested in being cast to the friend zone.
3.Make sure she wants more - It really doesn’t matter if you are texting back and forth or you’re out on a real date. It’s vital you always leave her wanting more of you. The last thing you want is for her to get bored of you and, worse yet, forget about you altogether.
When you leave conversations on a high note, she’s going to be excited and left just a little short. That will boost her eagerness to communicate with you again. You are forcing her hand to think about you.
4.Don’t always be available - It’s okay to tell her no.
5.Be Mysterious - Some people say playing hard to get is a good thing, and others chalk it up as a complete waste of time. According to the experts, playing hard to get will make most women more interested in you. The issue is making sure you find the right balance.
It’s not easy to back off on the eagerness and increase the evasiveness slightly. Make sure you don’t play too hard to get, or it will backfire.
6.Don't be too pushy - It's a turnoff when you're always around her and touching her and flirting obnoxiously with her when she is not interested and has never shown any interest at all. Learn to give her the control, even if it's only the illusion of control.
7.Make sure you have your goals - Not only should you have goals, but you should also have a plan to reach them. Driven men, who set regular targets and hit them, are seen as focused and successful in the eyes of women.
It really doesn’t matter what goals you have. Just make sure you share them with her, and as a bonus, ask her what goals she’s set for herself.